Everyone working in schools or education policy should watch out for campaigners and consultants with appalling views on sexual assault.
Anyone who has ever discussed young people with extreme behaviour knows there is an apparently endless parade of commentators who will make every possible excuse for those young people. It is constantly claimed that those who are out of control in schools, or committing crimes in the streets, are not responsible for their actions. Children should never be excluded from schools and young people should never be sent to prison. Inevitably, this leads to some awkwardness when discussing the worst crimes.
When we hear from those claiming that young criminals are not to blame when they offend, the big question is whether sexual assault is as excusable as other crimes. When we hear from those arguing that schools should not exclude pupils, the big question is what should be done about cases involving sexual assault. This second point is not because sexual assault is a particularly common reason for exclusion. Sexual assaults are likely to be put in the category of “Sexual misconduct” in exclusion statistics and this was included as a reason for only 69 permanent exclusions in 2020-21. This compares with 568 exclusions for “Physical assault against an adult” and 878 for “Physical assault against a pupil”. Incidents in both of these categories are likely to involve serious or repeated violence. What makes sexual assaults so important to the debate is that we know sexual assaults are overwhelmingly male violence against women and girls. While it is entirely possible for people in the most out-of-touch parts of the political left to blame many other serious crimes on poverty, or a lack of youth centres, it is widely recognised that if you make excuses for sexual violence, you enable it.
The usual anti-exclusion arguments encourage us to ask only what is best for the perpetrator, looking for reasons to suggest that they were provoked and couldn’t help themselves. When applied to sexual violence, these arguments look particularly tasteless, and against the spirit of the times. The willingness of sex offenders and other abusers to claim to be the victim is well known. People on all parts of the political spectrum, and all sides in the culture wars, would be unlikely to agree that those who commit sexual assault should be sympathised with. Those who would happily have a child (usually a girl) continue to share a classroom, and a school, with somebody who has sexually assaulted them, or suggest that a “restorative conversation” between perpetrator and victim is an appropriate response to sexual violence, seem psychopathically cruel. Activists claim to be motivated by compassion when they lobby on behalf of the perpetrators of serious crimes. When they then show a complete lack of empathy for the victims, it is very revealing. One ends up wondering whether compassion is often just an act. It is important that we notice when individuals and organisations excuse sexual violence, as they do not always advertise this when sharing their views on school discipline or criminal justice. Some examples follow.
Back before she became notorious when her charity, Kids Company, collapsed, I was apparently the only person to point out the terrible views of Camila Batmanghelidjh.
If you actually look at what neuroscience is telling us about the way children’s brains develop, it is absolutely evident that the frontal lobe which is the area responsible for prosocial behaviour and assessing the consequences of your actions doesn’t develop robustly in males until they’re 27 and in females until they’re 25.
Neuroscience is saying … the quality of the attachment relationship that is provided for you sculpts your ability to control your behaviour, plan and be prosocial. It’s saying if children are frightened and terrorised and impoverished nutritionally then there is an impact on the way their brain develops… No child is born a criminal or a killer. Any child who commits a crime, there is a legacy of crimes committed against that child prior to the time that they got to be a perpetrator. For victims that might be a better narrative than “I happened to be picked on and I happened to be raped … because why?… because these children are evil. What does that mean?”
(From here)
The most prominent supporters of keeping sex offenders in school with their victims are No More Exclusions. Apart from having made clear to the press that this is their policy, they have defended it in two publications.
In a document entitled “Frequently Asked Questions On Abolition And School Exclusions” they argued that it was the existence of adult authority, not the actions of predators, that was responsible for sexual assault in schools.
“Sexual violence is a serious issue. However…
…Abuse is about power, and it is also important to address abuse by adults towards young people in schools and other institutions. As children we are taught just to accept the authority of adults, and this can lead us to learn to ignore our own sense of discomfort.
By creating a culture of consent, not just among students but also between students to staff, we both allow young people to have their agency and also make them less likely to want to transgress someone’s else’s boundaries, encouraging people to respect each other and hold themselves to account. By contrast, in environments in which their consent is constantly violated, young people might wonder: “Why should I care about someone else’s boundaries if mine are always being transgressed?”
In the next section, entitled “What about violence? What about the victims” they outline who they consider to be the real victim and their suggested alternative to exclusions:
Another important question to consider is who we count as a victim. So often when we talk about victims and perpetrators, we focus only on situations involving interpersonal violence, ignoring people who are harmed by state and structural violence – for example people experiencing the everyday violence and material deprivation caused by economic inequality and racism. The education system should recognise these forms of harm and ensure that those experiencing it are also supported.
Exclusion is a humiliating experience; it is the violent removal of a child from the classroom. We need to challenge and remove violence from our classrooms, not respond violently by excluding children, even those who have acted violently. No teacher should consider a child to be unteachable. Instead we need a model where the victim of violence can experience justice, for example by explaining their feelings so that the perpetrator can understand the harm they have caused. The perpetrator should also be allowed to explain what made them angry and violent and be given room to reflect on the way they acted.
The document this was in, is apparently no longer available on their website and has been replaced with a new, yet equally appalling stance on sexual violence. I will discuss this in my next blogpost.
Who would make excuses for sexual violence in schools? Part 2
June 29, 2023In my previous post, I explained why attitudes to young people who commit sexual offences are such an important part of the debate about exclusions from school. I also discussed the organisation No More Exclusions and their appalling views on sexual violence in schools. I looked at their original FAQ document. This implied young people commit sexual offences because schools put adults in charge of them and suggested a restorative conversation was a more appropriate sanction than exclusion. That document has now been removed from their website.
A newer FAQ document entitled “What about the other 29?” represents their current position. It argues that sexual assault is so common in schools that removing those responsible isn’t worthwhile.
They then argue against informing the police of sex crimes and against punishing sex offenders:
This section starts by acknowledging “the feedback and support provided by the End Violence Against Women (EVAW) Coalition” and sure enough, despite the name, this appears to be another organisation advocating for greater tolerance of sexual assault in schools. In a report released on the 12th June 2023, they argued that:
It would be tempting to assume that these groups are on the distant fringes and would be shunned by reputable organisations and the education establishment. Far from it. EVAW lists two university professors with CBEs on their Board of Trustees. Its website provides a list of members that includes the NEU, the British Humanist Association, the Trades Union Congress, the National Federation of Women’s Institutes and Amnesty International. While I suspect that many of these organisations are not even aware of what EVAW stand for, they have helped make those views respectable. Worse still though, are those who actually endorsed the report calling for more tolerance of sexual violence in schools that I quoted above.
Kim Leadbetter MP:
Lib Peck, the Director of London’s Violence Reduction Unit:
Claire Waxman OBE, London’s ironically titled “Victims’ Commissioner”:
No More Exclusions is not quite as mainstream as EVAW. However, despite having views on sexual assault that make them a safeguarding nightmare, they are celebrated by many who should know better. The Guardian published a ludicrously positive piece about them. In the last few months, three different organisations have put out reports citing them. The Children and Young People’s Mental Health Coalition, (whose members apparently include Barnardos, Samaritans and two London NHS trusts) wrote a report that included “evidence” from No More Exclusions. They were also used as a source of information for a report by the charity ESDEG that was taken seriously by the people in charge of schools in Ealing. Liberty, the civil liberties organisation, put out a report that included a chapter written by No More Exclusions.
There is no firewall between the extremists who make excuses for sexual assault and want sex offenders to stay in school with their victims, and the wider anti-exclusions movement of charities, NGOs, campaigners, politicians, journalists, officials and academics.
Finally, I should also point out that if you raise the issue of sexual assaults in schools, and the use of exclusions to prevent them, there are those that will attack your motives. Here are some examples of some of the comments made about anyone who asks “but what about sex offenders?” in debates about school exclusions.
In the minds of these individuals, several of whom actually work as behaviour consultants, it is unacceptable to even discuss how a no-exclusion policy would fail the victims of sexual assault.
In future posts in this series, I will look at some real-life cases involving children accused of sexual offences in schools, and the consequences of the decisions school leaders had to make. I hope these will make it clear why this issue should be a very real concern.
Share this:
Posted in Commentary | 1 Comment »